Nice quote sinan. I think those who are derfefint just for the sake of being derfefint is equally as laughable as those who are all the same. The key is to understand what you are doing instead of blindly following the trend. I agree to cuiyao that lolita are no derfefint from others, there are good and there are evil. Never stereotype others merely based on how they dress like.I don't particularly appreciate lolita but I respect them. Afterall, we live our own lives and no one else is in the position to judge others on that.